Modelling
As children we learn just about everything from modelling. Parents and guardians are generally the most influential in your young life.
There are even sayings that reflect this “A chip off the old block” and “Like father like son”.
Even though we hate to admit it, we learn much of our behaviour from our parents and guardians. We tend to either be identical to one parent or a combination of both, though some people become the extreme opposite of their parents.
Can you relate any of your current abundance blueprint to early modelling?
Are you on an up and down pattern of income that could be based on savings for a rainy day, or do you spend everything because you could easily lose all your money, so you might as well enjoy it while you can.
You are probably familiar with the story about the couple who had an argument in exasperation with each other. If you haven’t heard the story it went something like this:
She always left a small amount of something on her plate and was horrified that he used to finish all his food. She left a small amount of something in every container in the fridge which he found very annoying and wasteful. When they look at their conditioning, her early modelling was based on her mother’s definition of manners, that it was polite to always leave something on her plate, never to eat everything. So even in adulthood she always left a little.
He was modelled from early childhood that you were supposed to clean up your plate because there were children in the world starving. It is easy to see that such basic modelling influences how we behave as adults.
Distinct Episode:
Growing up, you may have experienced distinct episodes that are forever imprinted on your unconscious mind. Think back. What did you experience around money, wealth or abundance?
These experiences can shape your beliefs, what you believe to be true-and this is what you live by now. Where the episode had an emotional attachment, these emotions are likely to be linked to money, wealth or abundance in your life today.
It is very likely that as you were growing up you witnessed your parents arguing about money. Generally, one parent would spend money and the other parent would save money. You may have the belief that money causes disharmony in relationships.
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